Everyone has both. And even 'good' people do awful things. You might have someone who is a great father but a miserable husband. Or someone who is a wonderful boss but a horrid daughter/son. It goes on and on.
And honestly the 'caring' part of people falls short so much. We're garbage - it's up to the people who care to try to work for a better world and build it. That's a shitty and slow disgusting grind which often comes to fruition as those people who did the work die off.
That's the negative part of it.
But the positive part is that changes do occur - they become demonstrative. And now that we know more about the human brain there are advances. Slowly but surely getting mental health help is less frowned upon. And while everyone does awful shit that they'd be ashamed of if they were being honest, we can often find that the good can outweigh the bad, and even the bad do make some sort of effort. It's a ball game. If both parts are in play, you just pick the one you want and work for it while not being a blind idealistic person.
The Plan at the moment:
Draft: Trade a 3rd and 6th this year to a team to move up and get a 2nd next year (this will happen).
Players I want:
Jake Ferguson (Jake Butt) or Jelani Woods or Jeremy Ruckert or Cade Otten (owen daniels) at TE- All 4th rd or later.
Troy Anderson LB 3rd/4th rd (yay Timmy!)
Neil Farrell, JR DL- run stuffer- bye purcell
People convince themselves doing nothing is ok, or they refuse to acknowledge what's going on. For the most part nothing terrible happens and those people go about their lives believing themselves to be good moral people.
But when a child dies, or a spouse is hospitalised...... The case always is filled with accounts from those close to the family staying "one time I saw....". But they choose to do nothing at the time. They are complicit in their silence. The only difference between them and the others, the others don't get to feel guilty about it for the rest of their lives
I would normally say these threads should focus just on the macro, but considering my belly, these fat jokes are fair play.
To add to Val's post to UR - you might see situations and be able to play 'chess' with them, but keep in mind that in your mind you're sacrificing another person's pawns.
A person with mental illness wants to stay alive, while also constantly thinking no one wants them and they're better off dead. It's a struggle. Most people don't want to die.
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