Originally Posted by
BroncoJoe
I have some personal experience about this being the Dad, but not the sperm donor, to two of my kids. Personally I think the kids are better off. And that's not because I'm in their life, but because of the destructive behavior of the suicidal person. He was offered all kinds of help, but walked out on it all. If still living, he would have made my wife's life miserable as well as the kids because he just simply wasn't interested in helping himself. Maybe that would have changed over time, but frankly and unrepentantly, I say good riddance.
How many murder-suicides to we read about all the time? This guy, the night before he killed himself, tried to get my wife to meet him in a park. Thankfully she said no way. They were separated at the time and I don't think there's any doubt what his intentions were that evening.