Originally Posted by
Buff
I struggle with this one a bit - I agree with you, but I also think there is a fine line between over-correcting and tolerating complacency.
I find that kids really like to test boundaries, and the more slack you give them the more likely they are to push the boundary further. So with our 5 year old I've almost reverted to the "broken window" style of policing where you correct every seemingly trivial offense so that she doesn't feel entitled to to push her behavior further. But I think a lot of this depends on the offense... For instance, if she is being defiant about a directive then I have zero tolerance for that because it's entirely within her control - but inadvertant mistakes are bound to happen and those are the ones you have to let go.