ben coached two yrs as a graduate assistant...
then back to the high school ranks...meaning no paid position as a assistant coach was offered...kyle went from GA to a nfl assistant coach
and yes ben was picked up straight from a high school coaching job into the nfl...matter of fact he was an assistant under another relative... his father
it doesnt have to offend you all so much...but the fact is.... far from "charting his own course" ben would in all likelyhood still be coaching assistant under his father if his brother didnt elevate him tenfold