I've never been a mod here, and I've gotten in trouble a few times myself.
But I must say that handling the people here is probably like running a daycare.
There are the good kids who do what they're told, but sometimes get into an argument over who got the toy first, or they might want snack time early, or whatever. They just need a little direction sometimes (or a good long nap) and all is good.
Then there's the more aggressive kids who just take what they want when they want it and make some of the good kids cry. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, just something that happens in a daycare. They need to learn to ask and to share and when they can do that, it's all good.
Now you get to the bullies who LIKE to make the other kids cry. This does not work in a daycare because while you are taking care of the last crying kid, he's off making another kid cry. If the bully kids can't be taught to calm down and play nicely, then the other kids' parents might start taking their kids somewhere else because who wants to take their kid to a place that makes them cry every day?
Then there are the totally over the top rotten kids. They are destructive and have no ability to play well with others. They not only break toys, but they ruin the daycare's furniture, crayons, pillows, whatever is in use that day. Those kids make others cry, and disrupt the entire atmosphere of the daycare. They cannot stay, no matter how cute or funny they are. They are a danger to themselves and others.
If you have no idea what I'm talking about, then you're not a parent.